If you are serious about answering the question "how do I win lost love back"?, you need to go and get a copy of The Magic Of Making Up by T. W. Jackson. In this book, Mr. Jackson will explain to you the various reasons why we fall out of love with our partners.
More importantly he shows you the techniques you can employ to get your groove back. It is never too late to try to rediscover the passion and love you felt for your ex partner.
From this book you will learn how to communicate properly.
The Magic Of Making Up will go through certain things like when you are trying to sort out a problem you should always use sentences starting with I rather than you. "I feel hurt when you come home late from work" is a lot better than "you are always late home from work".
The first is explaining how you feel and should lead to a discussion about whether the working late can be fixed and if not, how you can work around it.
But the second sounds like an attack and if you deliver it just as the person walks through the door after a long day, it is easy to see how it can escalate into an argument.
Often we say things in the heat of the moment that either aren't true or are an exaggeration of how we are really feeling.
An example would be when you are fed up with your partner but you tell them you hate them. You don't really hate them as a person but perhaps their behavior is a problem.
When you are in the middle of a relationship that isn't working as well as it could, it is very easy to get caught up in a cycle of blame. You hold the other person responsible for everything that is going wrong.
This isn't fair nor is it likely to be true.
All too often, it is both parties that are causing the problems. Unfortunately one or other of you will have to be brave enough to take a stand and try and sort it out.
Leaving it to fester will lead to the end of your partnership and often this is exactly what happens.
What went wrong?
When you have already split up and are trying to win your lover back, you need to go back over the last few months or even year of your relationship and see what went wrong.
Ask your ex to meet up with you and be honest about your reasons. Don't expect them to read your mind and know that you want to rekindle the love affair.
Also don't expect miracles.
You didn't break up overnight so you are unlikely to be able to fix all your problems overnight either.
But given the right attitude and some good luck and great advice, you should soon know how to win love back and be happy again.
What have you got to lose? A little bit of pride is a small price to pay to get your lover back now isn't it?
Now if you're reading this, but feel that an out
of control fire has already 'gutted' and put an end to your
relationship. You may find it comforting to know that there
may be a second chance for you?
I've made some amazing new breakthroughs in the human
love, bonding and REBONDING process.
Many of these breakthroughs are just as counterintuitive
as the technique I've just handed you here.
I've made a special video with you in mind where I share
one of my counterintuitive rebonding techniques.
You're invited to watch here:
While I'm a little bumbly and no Brad Pitt on camera...
...the video has been watched over 893,000 times (rated 4 1/2 stars) and
it's rare for a day to go by where I don't receive a really heart
warming note from someone that has put their relationship back
together after going through hell and fearing they'd never
find their way back.
Hope it helps you too:-)
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